I cannot stop thinking about this situation, I have acid reflux, headaches, I am depressed and angry at the world. I was still pretty pissed about everything that was going on for the past couple of years and her refusal to acknowledge it, so I remained quiet. If he is swindling your money away, refuses to provide work for his family, constantly belittles you, has a drug or alcohol addiction, beats you up physically or verbally, ect ect, he may still be loved by God, but he does not love God, and he does not love you. He was always resentful of his older brother's disability, then of the attention he got when it became obvious he was greatly gifted in music. He goes right back to the same behavior. I was inside a 7th period and I wanted to quit.
Until my husband and I started dating I went above and beyond to make sure their father was a part of their lives bc it is important. I curse the day I disobeyed my own rule and ever let him start playing online games---that opened the floodgates to what, today, is full-on addiction to the internet and computer games. The history is difficult and I dont feel like explaining it, though it makes for an awesome love story Anyways, he was the only good thing about my life and still is. I figure why because they do not care about me and they are just going to let me down by leaving. I love my husband more than I could ever express. They are not judging me the way I think they do. You need to talk to someone, who can give you the necessary coping skills to understanding what you are going through.
My son has become the abusive jerk like his dad. When he died I lost 98lbs and I gained 24lbs back. The feedback that I've been getting from people about this booklet has been great. Then i feel extremely guilty about it! Pay off anything that has both names on it, do this with his little money he gives you. But then he broke it, and Im so happy he did Then my mom came home with a man 2 months ago.
Did she really think I appreciated her hanging all over my husband and acting like a total skank? I know she loves me, and I love her. Until he comes to me and apologizes. I tried to live a good life, tried to make my parents happy, but they always have problems with me…There was a time when i started thinking that there is something wrong with me and I need to change myself…but after analysing things i realised that m not making mistake first but they make me do so. Iris Hey, I have been this way for a long time now. We get enough of that from society. . My negetive is that I am too slow.
I told him I would do whatever it takes to help me get rid of that. I raised my 4 younger siblings. I am only telling you the tip of the iceberg of my heartfelt story. Kick him out and let him move in with his friends, and see how long that last. I hope your son will realize that someday. I guess my situation is better than much of what's been posted below.
His new girlfriend or should I say fiance now is very controlling. I will wait to see is he salute me. He never would commit to counseling other than a few times and would stop. This kept me from making friends as well in fear of being perceived as damaged. The easiest solution was to lock new people out. My background story is kinda different, but I know exactly how it is to put a fake smile to please ppl. I sacrificed,worked 3 jobs,and did everything to give them a happy, consistent childhood.
The thing is that I think that if anybody is going to marry me he is not going to be happy because of my appearence……. It was wrong i know, but i have hope. After you give birth my husband, feels that you are no longer sexually desirable, you aren't his whore anymore just his mom. Jozlyn Hi, I have struggled with self worth for 31 years. I ask this because studies have shown that mothers who work and contribute to the bills back at home have higher rates of happiness than homemakers. He has acknowledged that he took his anger out on me because he knew I would always love him no matter what.
Hi Carey, I want to thank you for your advice. I'm just so glad I'm not alone in this. But finally I am in a place where I no longer withhold my problems if I have any. It faded relatively quickly and was back at it a few weeks later. Hi Brenda, so sorry to hear about the severity of your situation. I know at heart he's a good kid, he just needs to move on.