He had to hide that to keep his image. But hey, nobody said he was smart. No Guys get jealous very jealous picture this. I assume he just lost interest at some point but still likes me as a person. It is one thing to be friends with your ex but it is an entirely different matter when it comes to friends with benefits. In fact, I heard through the grapevine that she finally got her last name changed back to her maiden one, which I have been expecting since very early on in this process.
Should I try to be friends with him if this is the only way to keep him in my life, knowing that I'll always hope for more especially with what he said, see above? He destroyed everything for blow jobs, which he could have gotten at home any time. Of course, this is an extreme example. Then decades later, they meet again, still in love with each other and get married. Late answer, but my ex wants to remain friends and I really don't know why. I will not allow him to use me again.
My ex very much wanted to be friends. You feel empty inside without her. And of course my cousin knew how to play the game. Thank you so much for this post. I am assuming that your ex boyfriend is a relatively reasonable and understanding guy. He kept lying over and over, he came delusional.
We are break up for 2 weeks now. He doesn't seem interested at all, he probably meant stay friendly as in be cordial to each other because you have common friends and it could be awkward. If I had a business partner who lied to me, who stole from me and who was out and about hooking up in a partnership with someone else I would run as fast as my legs would carry me — and carrying my share of the business too. Months later, post divorce, he accused me of sending some magazine subscription to his girlfriend with an inappropriate last name. He texted me a few times and I answered but I want to start ignoring him. You have a boyfriend but you are texting another guy to come visit you overseas. It drove me nuts though which allowed him to blame me and say I was crazy.
His dad did this with his mother. My friends tell me to just walk away block every possible way for him to contact me and move on. Plus the bottom line is that they are soulless. The man I love just left me yesterday after 8 years together, and 15 years of knowing each other. But granted, I feel this way because each of my ex-girlfriends lied to or cheated on me, so the choice to remove them from my life was all too easy. On around day 11, you will receive an email about the 5 stages of getting your ex back. The fact that your boyfriend still wants to be friends means he still wants you in his life.
He explain everything and said we should start again as friends. The kids will be fine as long as they have one sane parent who cares for them and loves them. He was such a bastard to me on so many levels that he knew my story would get back to all the new women in his life and he was concerned with how others would view him. We were so physically attracted to each other, hungry for all the time we had spoken but couldn't be with each other. We keep in touch messaging sometimes and phone calls here and there, most of which are initiated by me with him responding. One Sunday morning, about 18 months after he left, I was in bed and there was a loud knock on my bedroom door and he walked in.
Again, some romantic relationships do happen as a result of both people being friends first. These guys may with that girl even though they no longer feel a romantic spark with them. He said that he wants us to become close friends and then something might happen. I took a chance and had a great time and never been so in love but the next minute out of no where he is gone. The only thing you will see is her kissing another guy.
He has a new girlfriend though, but he talks to me about his problems instead of her. In general, I think it's bad to be friends with an ex. I sometimes have to sit on my hands. I would agree, however, our break up wasn't sour and I don't really give him all that much attention. I personally do not stay friends or in contact with exes, ever. I kept asking him what the real reason is so that we can fix things, but he just told me stop.
Just remember that building a friendship after a relationship is work. We've known each other for three years and I just love her no matter what she did to me, which I don't understand for myself. So he has no obligation to tell you what he is busy with. However he really wants to stay friends and strangely, I think he means it. Mutual breakups are usually not mutual, and the breakee is holding on to some strong romantic desires. No contact can be difficult, but it's by far the best way to heal from a breakup. He is simply a card board place holder in my mind.