Not unless you are getting jealous, in which case it is working for him. Friends are an important outlet for confiding in, for boosting your confidence, and for the ability to say things without reprisal. Their narcissism is disarming in its directness, in its cruel and absolute lack of empathy. I feel I get no time with here and yes it is hurting my feelings. Oh, the horror that he trusts you completely and wholeheartedly. Demanding every bit of attention from your wife is unacceptable. People who care about and love each other make every effort to talk things out and hold their relationship together.
Without your intending it, or, without your realization, there may be some things the two of you are not doing. Even though all my four children have been treated as equally as possible, my son is constantly making sarcastic and negative remarks towards her, which I am totally fed up with, as she has done nothing to warrant this treatment. I try to stay out of it as much as possible and be neutral, as certainly don't want to add fuel to the fire. Always fighting everyone else's battles, this also kept people from bothering my siblings. In a sick way, he is truly obsessed with you and your life. But know this: Whenever a woman we're into does one of these things, our inner monologue is essentially the music video for Michael Jackson's Beat It. Even when I come into town they dodge me or don't even make an effort when I reach out to try and see them or make plans.
I'm the youngest , as if that was not a problem in itself. Was there anything to bring on this behavior? Plus side is I feel vindicated and can now move on with my God given life and trust in Him to see me through. Also thanks to those who posted there stories. I recognize my thwarted self in them. Whenever we socialized as couples, it was obvious they had little in common.
Invasions of privacy, boundary violations, and direct attacks are the norm. I've always been the one who would protect anyone in my family. Our new Life Labs Practical Wisdom online course entitled 'How to Save Your Relationship' gives you the tools and insights to singlehandedly change your relationship for the better. He said that as long as I didn't kiss him back then there was no reason to even give it a second thought. Cant trust him at all or leave him alone in my home because of the sly things hes known to do. When I was seven or so, when my parents were going through a divorce, my father had a bizarre breakdown one afternoon and confessed to me that he had been cheating in order to beat me at the card game Old Maid. However, not everyone who is jealous is willing and able to be honest and vulnerable.
He works with the woman who is nothing short of a vulture and has been playing him the whole time whenever she feels like it. For example, a parent may lavish attention on a child who is more academic, athletic, musical, etc. My guy time is done same day, there and back. She now makes fun of me because she says I am only captain and made the team because of my mom being the coach. . The most important thing is to remain a loving, caring individual and not allow the antics of jealous family members to make you bitter.
It is also true that husbands and wives do have friends and relatives. If your husband is newly jealous of you and your friends, you need to find out why. All his high points come at your expense. I did eventually decide to create a lot of distance and I find myself much happier. O feel she has always had a problem with me and my other siblings say she does and it's over my success in life.
Jealousy comes from a feeling of need, when you might be afraid of losing your partner, feeling either insecure or experience not getting enough recognition of love. I don't think he understands what he's doing is slowly killing my love for him. I am so done with all un-healthy behaviors, and gossiping. I have apologized to my sister to try and make peace. He hates that i am happy and behind my back slags me off.
It has opened my eyes of why I feel so beat down by my sister and brother. Do not fuel the fire for their gossip and negative talk. Sigh, I have strange relatives. It is not easy if you've been enduring this for your entire life. Don't contact them anymore, they can't wait to find out more about your bad situation.
For God's sake, what happened to getting a job and buying your own? I belong to a very respectable and educated family. But what I consciously experience is disbelief. My dad is elderly, mom has passed, a year now. It hurts so bad and u feel so jealous and u can't share it with anyone. Go for it honey, your husband don't care.
This is the liberal world, they are self-destructing and don't understand why. This is a common characteristic of all narcissists. He may feel your kids have a better relationship with your ex than he ever could, for example. But her jelousy started when I was small. Sometimes I feel like giving my son a good talking too but honestly feel this would only make the situation worse. I wanted to go home from the beginning! If in every other way he treats you like he values you as a partner and trusts your judgement then you need to take that as a compliment of how much he trusts you. Levi, you need a heart to heart with your wife.